Monday, February 16, 2009

Needy Girl

Warning! Needy girl alert! The subject is 5’2”, brunette, brown eyes, and heartbroken. She has been known to use methods such as rebounding, sexual co-dependency, and various numbing techniques to avoid her pain. Be careful! She’s armed and jaded. She has the verbal venom ready and there is a force field of steel surrounding her heart. If seen, approach with caution. She may cry or leave her body at any moment. Don’t make any sudden moves, for two things could happen. She may cling to you and suck you dry of your life force. Or, she may be so closed off that all of your emotions will rebound off of her armor and smack you in the forehead, leaving scars that could affect you for lifetimes. This needy girl just needs time. If you really want to help her then hug her, appreciate her uniqueness, and let her be herself. If you, or anyone you know, is a needy girl then it is important to acknowledge the awesomeness of the feminine, bask in the radiance of being an emotional woman, and find solace in knowing and speaking your own truths.
To all the needy girls out there, it’s ok to be in your own company. You will find it refreshing to not worry what others think. It will help you to evolve into the Goddess that you are. You will find it a great deal easier to be yourself and not a modified, watered down version of you. Welcome to being truly alive, where each day you are grateful that you are living your own dreams, no one else’s. Welcome to feeling fabulously free. Embrace the solitude, take time to dance with the Great Choreographer, and find fulfillment in the stillness. Love the silence, for it is the wordless conversations that will lead your to your answers. It’s ok to be needy right now, needy girl. Now is a brilliant time to learn to satisfy your own needs. You are strong enough. Turn the needs into deeds. Start becoming exactly who you want to be. Take all the actions you can in order to live the life that calls to you. By being at peace with who you are, where you have been, and where you are going, you are doing yourself and the world a great justice. This will attract all of the right people to you, ultimately attracting the one who will allow your true essence to shine, your blossoming to occur, and your fragrance to permeate the atmosphere. He will be the key that opens you all the way, so that your heart may give and receive so fluidly it will be like breathing. Ah, yes, breathing. That is your homework, needy girl. Breathe. Just breathe. When it’s all falling apart, find your gratitude and breathe. All is well, and you are whole.

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